I had a friend ask me how I do the stuff I do.
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My answer is, "Heck if I know."
Number one is that I don't get everything done that I want to get done. If I did, that second book would be finished by now. I'm a good 6,000 words behind where I would like to be.
Number two is that I think the important stuff always gets done. Because it is important.
The rest of the stuff we fit in. It's like the oft-told management story of the glass jar, the rocks, the pebbles and the sand. The way to fit everything in is to take care of the big rocks, the important stuff, first. Those can be your family, job, health. Whatever you want them to be. Then you put in the pebbles. Those can be a committee meeting at church or a PTA meeting. Whatever is kind of important but not important enough to be a big rock.Then there's the sand. It just sort of fits in around the nooks and crannies of the other stuff. Sand might represent watching TV alone -- not super important to me.
One way to fit in big rocks is to put them in first. I am happy to say that, although holiday stuff and time with those I love took up a lot of my writing time this weekend, I was up and writing about 6 a.m. today. I need to put that big rock in earlier tomorrow. My hope is to log in 25,000 words before Jan. 1. Can you tell I studied project management in grad school?
That's a lot of rocks, though, so here is the last tip until I think of some more. It is to consistently put the rocks in the jar. Every day. I totally need to work on this.
One of my favorite books on getting it all done is "First Things First," by Stephen Covey. I read it in my early 30s when I was working hard, caring for aging parents and young children and generally wearing myself out. It was a game changer for me.